Guest post from Just Dating Girls.
Having female friends is not as difficult as it seems. A lot of men think having female friends means you have to go all out to act like their girlfriends, chatting about shoes and shopping malls and the other stuff girls like to talk about and do. You’re wrong. You don’t have to act like girl to have female friends. If you’re one of those who does this, then you’ve only succeeded in telling the girls around you that you’re not a serious proposition. You’re nothing that’s new, special or exciting.
To have female friends, all you have to do is be yourself. It’s that simple. You act like you do with your guy friends and you’ll never chase the girls away. Be natural, if you act your way into making girls your friends, one day your script will run out and the show will come to an end, leaving you in the out to dry.
When this happens, you are most likely to fall back on your ego and believe that you don’t need female friends; well you’re not wrong you’re the last man on the planet of only men. But since you’re not, here are the reasons we all need female friends.
Having girl friends (not girlfriends) will help boost your confidence when you talk to women making you comfortable around women.
This is a fact. If you don’t believe this, then you should probably observe your friends who have sisters. They’re naturally at home in a crowd of women. You will be too if you have female friends who you relate with comfortably. Women have a natural intuition for noticing uncomfortable men around them and they will eat you up. If you are uncomfortable around women you like, even if they like you they’ll be uncomfortable near you and will try to get as far away as possible.
If you’re uncomfortable around women, the best medicine for this is to hang around them a lot and try to get them to be your friend. Once you succeed in making female friends, wooing them should not be a problem. If you hang around women a lot, it wears off on you and when you try to woo the next girl at the salon, she’ll sense that your not unfamiliar in the women territory and will definitely relate with you like you’ve been her friend all her life and all thanks to a female friend of yours who is very familiar with the topics that strike the interest of this girl.
Another advantage of having female friends is that you never have to recite your old pick up lines over and over again. A lot of guys have some of the best pick up lines in their manual. You can trust them to get the interest of the girl sitting at the bar but those pick up lines will only work as far as the next 30 minutes after that there’s nothing in the manual that helps to keep the conversation steaming and the girl loses interest and walks away. Having female friends helps prevent this from happening because you already have the experience of holding a conversation with a girl for more than 30 minutes and surely this would work for you.
Having female friends will help you fine tune your wooing skills, trust me they’re the best teachers when it comes to women affairs!